
I've noticed a tendency towards women trying to develop friendships like men do through "doing". There are a few women's social groups even where I live that focus on going out and doing various activities. Which I guess is where you have to start, but nothing ever goes beyond superficial activities.
For deeper, more meaningful connections, I believe there has to be more heart-to-heart sharing of those things that inspire or even trouble us. The deepest connections can come from having a trusting friendship where we can share our most difficult struggles and fears. These are the types of friendships we are more likely to be able to keep.
Women definitely need friends and for the sake of our mental and even physical health and well-being, we should prioritize making and keeping friendships.
Writing for the site The Women on the Web, Zaslow says, “A host of studies show that having a close group of friends helps women sleep better, improve their immune systems, stave off dementia and actually live longer.”
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